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SinanCreates's avatar

This piece hit at exactly the right time.

"Attention is not just focus... it is relationship. And every relationship changes both sides."

I'm 19, building a newsletter from scratch, and Week 7 has been about learning where my attention actually goes. The realization: I was spending hours watching creators at 10K+ subscribers and feeling behind, instead of engaging with people at my level where real relationships could form.

Your question — "If my attention is alchemy, what am I unconsciously creating?" — that's the shift.

I was unconsciously creating anxiety by comparing. Now I'm consciously creating community by engaging genuinely.

The part about attention being pulled vs placed? That's the trap. Notifications, comparison spirals, algorithmic feeds — all designed to steal focus before you even realize you had a choice.

"Protect the first and last five minutes of your day. These are the 'golden gates' when your mind is most pliable."

Saving that. Those five minutes determine whether I start the day anxious about numbers or focused on the work that actually compounds.

Thanks for this. Really needed the reminder that attention isn't effort — it's a soft leaning, a curiosity, an invitation extended to reality: "Show me what you are."

Powerful piece. 🙏

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Dean Cooper's avatar

This piece names something CTM works with very directly: attention isn’t just focus, it’s the organizing force of the mind. In CTM — Cognitive Transformational Mindfulness, I frame attention as relational and embodied, shaped by nervous system state, emotion, and meaning before it becomes a conscious choice. That’s why CTM doesn’t just train attention, it stabilizes coherence first—so attention stops being hijacked and starts becoming intentional again. I explore this more deeply in my writing on Substack, where CTM looks at how awareness, agency, and environment interact in real time.

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